A man that cares about what you think, how you feel, and treats you like princess, but has low self esteem and confidence
A man with a little confidence and self esteem, will ask you how you feel and what you think but does not always listen.
A man with some confidence and self esteem, does kinda care about what you think and how you feel.
A man that has a lot of confidence and self esteem, will ask about your feelings and thoughts but only to make you think he cares.
A man that is confident, has high self esteem, and thinks he is a bad ass, but does not care about your emotional needs or how you feel. Only if your physical needs match his.