What stresses you out most about getting family photographs?

How will we ever get it scheduled? Between kids naps, school and work, its nearly impossible!

What do we wear?! Is it silly to still match? I can barely get kids into shoes most days!

How do we pick a location? What makes a pretty backdrop? I want it to look good, but not have to pick it!

All the above! I want to capture my family at this stage, but have no idea where to start!