So anyone that knows me well knows that I don’t like making decisions, typically I see pros and cons and if I still can’t pick between the 2 I make someone else pick, usually Devin but this time I want more than his opinion and yes I know that’s weird since he is my husband... anyway... Before I got pregnant I had already made my mind up that I didn’t know want to know the gender of my children before they were born. As most of you know Devin jumped in a river to save a kid and it started me thinking about if he wouldn’t have made it out we would have never experienced finding out the gender of our child together. I hope nothing bad happens to us before the baby is born but you can never guarantee that we will see tomorrow. So I feel torn because I think it would be incredibly exciting and fun to not know the gender but I think it would also be fun to make sure that we are able to experience that together. I didn’t care about the gender because I don’t want a ton of gende