My girlfriend Melissa confided in me recently. She found some messages on her phone from a woman to her husband. They were chitchat text messages what’s for dinner are you OK finally have a day off etc. she can friend her husband and found out that this was a stripper he met at a bar were on business she reiterated that she had no problem with strip clubs did have a pair with communication with a stripper and felt that it was very inappropriate how many women out there feel the same way is this inappropriate or appropriate what about you men what are your thoughts