What is your poly bed policy?

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My/our bed is only for sex between/among my partners and me — 22.9% (39 votes)

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My/our bed is open for sex for my partners and metamours (without me) — 20.6% (35 votes)

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My/our bed is open for sex for my partners and metamours (without me), but ask first and wash the sheets after — 19.4% (33 votes)

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My/our bed is only for sex between my partner and me — 14.1% (24 votes)

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My/our bed is open for sex for my partners and metamours (without me), but ask first — 10% (17 votes)

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My/our bed is open for sex for my partners (without me) — 9.4% (16 votes)

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My bed is for sleeping. — 0.6% (1 votes)

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Triad: for sleep or sex, any combination — 0.6% (1 votes)

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Until recently, our bed was only for the two of us. That was until I met my partner's new love interest and fell for him myself! I couldn't imagine not sharing our bed with him. — 0.6% (1 votes)

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I ask only to lay in clean sheets. — 0.6% (1 votes)

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Anything goes. — 0.6% (1 votes)

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My bed is open for sex for my partners, metamori and friends and their partners, with or without me. — 0.6% (1 votes)

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Open to all — 0% (0 votes)

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My wife may use it with me and her partners. — 0% (0 votes)

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With / without I'm fine — 0% (0 votes)

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depends upon relationship with metamours — 0% (0 votes)

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My bed is open for sex for my partners and metamours with or without me, but ask first. — 0% (0 votes)

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Bed policy currently undiscussed. — 0% (0 votes)

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My bed is me and whomever I invite. My partners beds are for them and whoever they invite. — 0% (0 votes)

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Open for sex — 0% (0 votes)

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My bed is only open between my partner and me with other partners we agree upon. — 0% (0 votes)

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The bed is open for sex between whomever is in it, however - if a visiting partner is staying over, then the live in partner gets to sleep in our usual bed, and the visiting partner and host will take the guest bed. It's already disrupting the other persons routine to have them sleep solo. We'd rather not complicate it further by kicking them out of their sanctuary/usual comfortable spot/access to clothes and belongings. — 0% (0 votes)

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My bed is open — 0% (0 votes)

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I have my own bed, but when we shared a bed there weren't any restrictions — 0% (0 votes)

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We each have our own bed — 0% (0 votes)

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Bed is open for sex only between my husband and me. We have another space for sex with our other loved ones. — 0% (0 votes)

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I live alone. But as long as you change the sheets, have fun! — 0% (0 votes)

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My/our bed is open for sex for my partners and metamours (without me), but wash or change the sheets after. — 0% (0 votes)

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I live with 4 generations of extended family, including my toddler, so it's rare that *I* get lucky in my bed these days... In previous apartments (pre-parenthood) though, my bed was fair game at parties, but it's always nice to be invited to join in! — 0% (0 votes)

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Bed is open to partners and metamours (without me) but inform me in advance. (I didn't like the term ask, I'm not giving permission I just want to be informed.) — 0% (0 votes)

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My/our bed is open for all of the above. — 0% (0 votes)

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I live alone, and my partner is allergic to cats, so we rarely have sex in my bed, more often in his bed where he also has sex with others as I have in mine. So our bed doesn't exist. — 0% (0 votes)

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It's MY bed, not "our" bed - I am not a "we." Case-by-case basis. — 0% (0 votes)

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MY bed, not "our" bed. Case-by-case basis. — 0% (0 votes)