So I am having a little trouble deciding here. My fiancé proposed about a month ago and I got right down to planning a wedding. My dad, however, has given me two options on how he is going to help and I can't decide which one to go with. If we have a big family wedding he will give us $250. Most of my family has pitched in on everything we need so we would be able to make it work but we have polar opposite families. If we have a small wedding here with just my parents, his parents, and our daughter he will give us $250 and pay for our plane tickets for us to go to California. We would be getting s photographer and doing wedding pictures out there and my grandma would be paying for the hotel so the price tag for us would be close to the same for both options. I need help!