Father has 3 sons, father buys youngest son a tracksuit matching the one mum bought the dad for bday. Dad informs the mum he would like to buy the other two sons the same tracksuit too, mum asks not to as she would like the youngest son to have this one thing the same as dad and unique to him only, to have something special between father and son. Dad goes against mum and buys the other sons the same tracksuit too. Mum feels betrayed and dad doesnt want to understand mums point of view and feels mum is creatig differences between the children, which she feels she isnt but was only trying to initiate a bomd between dad and newborn. Who is right??