So are you a friend to someone if...you know they used to be a miserable person addicted to herion, they get the worst news of their life and slip up with a "cotton" (yeah relapsed with a tiny bit ). Does the friend (or lover) intend harm if the next time (2 days later) they see that friend (mind you the person who brought it and gave it repeatedly to them was NOT a herion addict NOR were they the person that gave the relapser the "cotton." But all of a sudden when that friend goes and not only bring them herion BUT also a doctor? Is that love? Then afrerwards if said friend continually gives the person going through the worst time of their life herion repeatedly during the course of 1 month BUT that person doesn't do herion themselves...does that show love, friendship, care or concern? Or does that situation where a "friend" brings a clean friend herion during their relapse and nervous breakdown - when it starts said friend knew that they were giving herion to a person with no habit a